Saturday, June 25, 2005
Been thinking alot about my relationship with Nic, our future, marriage etc these days. Yes, again mostly inspired by my random blog wanderings.
Million-dollar question is: Go or no-go for marriage?
Long answer is really long. And at 1.30am, it's not something I want to delve into right now.
Short answer is: No-go.
Nic and I haven't really discussed this before. But my guess is that he's fine with either. He really wants me to be happy, and while like me, he sees no point in formalising our commitment to each other and the love we share, I am pretty confident he will still go ahead with marriage if that's really what I want. He has a really good track record of giving me what I want, so long as it's within his means.
He always says, 'Whatever you want, sweetie, you get, as far as I can make it happen.' It's actually part of the lyrics from one of his favorite songs (which is of course going into his birthday collection I am 'producing' for him) - 'whatever lola wants, lola gets...' But I have never used his sweet nature against him, at least not for anything major.
Million-dollar question is: Go or no-go for marriage?
Long answer is really long. And at 1.30am, it's not something I want to delve into right now.
Short answer is: No-go.
Nic and I haven't really discussed this before. But my guess is that he's fine with either. He really wants me to be happy, and while like me, he sees no point in formalising our commitment to each other and the love we share, I am pretty confident he will still go ahead with marriage if that's really what I want. He has a really good track record of giving me what I want, so long as it's within his means.
He always says, 'Whatever you want, sweetie, you get, as far as I can make it happen.' It's actually part of the lyrics from one of his favorite songs (which is of course going into his birthday collection I am 'producing' for him) - 'whatever lola wants, lola gets...' But I have never used his sweet nature against him, at least not for anything major.
# posted by Oddball @ 1:24 AM 
